There are so many opportunities for complaining about your spouse. Jc doesn't put away the laundry. He leaves his shoes, socks, and clothes out all over the couch. He never makes the bed. In eight years of marriage he has never cleaned the bathroom. I wish he would occasionally clean out the car, take out the recycling, pet the cats.
But... he washes all the clothes, rubs my feet every night after work, makes me dinner, scoops the kitty litter. He will clean the kitchen, drive me too and from work, and listen to me complain about work. He is always looking for ways to take little vacations, and reminds me (in a really sweet way) to be a nicer person.
Does any of that other stuff even matter?